Another warm southern California morning brought great weather for the San Diego Martin Luther King Day Parade. Is there a more appropriate parade considering all the disenfranchised parents fighting for the freedom to be with their children? The destruction of intact families would have made Dr. King weep in agony were he alive today. And, black families are the hardest hit, though he would have cried for all of us.
The Children’s Rights Initiative for Sharing Parents Equally (CRISPE) bus and crew from the California Men’s Center San Diego (CMCSD), National Coalition of Free Men (Los Angeles and San Diego Chapters), and Coalition of Parent Support (COPS) were decked out in bright purple CRISPE shirts, including several sons and daughters of the CRISPE crew.
Famous equal rights sign maker Ray Blumhorst brought some of his art work. NCFMSD member and soon to be County Supervisor John Van Door and I bundled brochures about CRISPE, NCFMSD/LA, PaternityFraudDNA, CMCSD, abused men, parental alienation, and inserted a wallet card with 16 reasons children are better off with their fathers in their lives.
Before the parade started I took 20 bottles of water and a bundles of the brochures to where San Diego Police and Boarder Patrol Officers congregated. They looked parched. The bottles of water and brochures went fast. In the meantime John V. was on the bus making more brochure packets for use in the parade.
Others were blowing up balloons, preparing our large CRISPE banner to led the bus, making sure large purple flags were ready, and serving as models for Ray B. and his camera clicking.
The kids played, ran around, scarffed down goodies ( I had two doughnuts…err, Ok, three), and generally had a good time being with their parents, including CRISPE 1.5, Larry’s son. Flo and husband Charley brought sweets and fresh fruit which were delicious. Kevin Young, NCFM Secretary/Board Member NCFM-SD, brought the doughnuts. Jay Bowden, COPS, brought his two daughters, Dawn (Larry’s good friend) brought her son, Ed G. came with daughter and daughter. CRISPE-1.5’s Godfather was there with children and friends (just in case you are curious: Larry is CRISPE-1, I’m privileged to be CRISPE-2, Craig C. is CRISPE-3, Todd Hodgen (web master par excellance) CRISPE-4, and Rich A., our PR guy, CRISPE 5).
We were in the second flight of those in the parade. By the time we were leaving the staging area the front of the parade was already returning! We got the green light and followed a really good high school marching band; so, we had great music the whole way.
Kevin Y. and John V. stretched out the large purple CRISPE banner and lead our entourage. CRISPE crew sons and daughters, Flo, CRISPE-1.5’s Godfather and children, Ed G. and his son and daughter, marched and traded off carrying Ray B’s signs. Purple balloons fastened to the front, a passel of kids waiving out back windows, Charley firmly planted in the co-pilot’s chair, bad knees and all, and Larry, CRISPE-1, maneuvered the 42’ long CRISPE bus (“coach”, actually) as the event wrapped it’s way around Petco Park (home of the Padres – a baseball team for those of you that don’t follow the “great American pastime”). Not bad, not bad at all, really. Ray B. sporting two cameras scurried from one side of the streets to another taking pictures as our menagerie turned and twisted through East Village with the parade.
Me, well, I had my apron on. Not to wash dishes or cook, which I love doing – maybe not the dishes – but I had my apron on filled with those packets of brochures John V. and I put together. I also had a bunch of CRISPE business cards and a couple hundred of the green wallet cards with the 16 reasons children need fathers in their lives. I was the hawker.
Like Ray and his picture taking I went from street side to street side like I used to peddle The Anchorage Daily Times (as in Alaska) when I was 8,9, and 10-years-old. GET YOUR ANCHORAGE DAILY TIMES…HOT OFF THE PRESS…ONLY A DIME FOR THE ANCHORAGE DAILY TIMES…ALASKA IS THE 49TH STATE…ONLY A DIME… err, sorry I didn’t mean to date myself or get distracted. More aptly, BROCHURES, CRIPSPE BROCHURES…LEARN ABOUT THE BIG PURPLE BUS…ONLY ONE OF ITS KIND ON THE PLANET…BROCHURES…JUST FINISHED OUR FIRST NATIONAL TOUR…thank you…BROUCHURES, BUSINESS CARDS. LEARN ABOUT THE BIG PURPLE BUS…Hi, thank you very much…yes the phone numbers on the brochure…BROCHURES, BROCHURES, LEARN ABOUT THE BIG PURPLE BUS…
Well Sir, I was having so much fun Flo got jealous, took some business cards, green wallet cards, and packets of brochures and started working the crowd too. Heck, near the end of the parade Ray B. even got in the act, though it slowed don’t the click, click, click of his cameras. Dang if we didn’t pass out literally hundreds of brochures, business cards, and fatherlessness green wallet cards. And, not one snicker, dirty look, middle finger, sour twisted face, nary a bad word from the gawkers. People smiled, gave us the thumbs up, waived (probably because I so good looking), cheered us on, and a group of Army guys almost lunged at me to get our information. Yup, not bad. Not bad at all. Really.
We had a blast! Warm weather, fattening high cholesterol snacks, fresh fruit, coffee (passable, Larry makes it), good friends, parents with their children, and rousing music as the band(s) played on.
Ray B. will have pictures ready for the Internet soon. Some of those and others will be available within a few hours or days too at www.crispe.org. So you might want to check the CRISPE site soon just to see how much fun we had; and, to see the CRISPE crew play on. We made a difference. You can too. If you’ve not donated to CRISPE please do; and, if possible or already have, please do so as regularly as possible. The bus is expensive to operate. None of us get paid. Larry just keeps spending his life savings to help others save their lives. How much is that worth? It’s incalculable. CRISPE needs your help and your donation is tax deductable. So, join the CRISPE parade. The “donate” button is on our home page at www.crispe.org, as in keep parents and children together.
(posted at www.harrycrouch.blogspot.com if you would like to comment)
Take Care,
Harry Crouch
Founder/Director, California Men's Centers
President, National Coalition of Free Men San Diego (NCFM-SD)
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San Diego, CA 92101
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